Thom is known for his courageous and forthright approach to challenging situations. In these short videos, he shares some of the insights that have defined his work.


The two signs you know you're in the right place to make an important decision.


You must enter the "tradeoff" conversation.


Learn how appeasement actually hurts your relationships.

"Needs vs Solutions"

Thom explains the difference between needs and solutions and why giving a solution to a problem can actually hurt your conversation.


Thom asks, "What's really important here?" That's the power behind being fearless.

"Creative Tension"

When do you know you're in the right space to make important changes? Thom describes what "creative tension" is and why it's essential to the process.